| Location | Middlesex |
| Age | 62 years |
| Date of Birth | 23/12/1939 |
| Date of Death | 05/12/2002 |
| Visitors | 1,352 since 09/02/2007 |
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Terry,
Fantastic loving Husband, amazing Step-Father and one in a million Grandfather, taken from his family far too early as a result of a terminal illness. It wasn't fair, you had already suffered losing your sight a few years before and then fate struck again with an illness for which there was no cure. But you took it all in your stride and got on with things.
We can remember after you had lost your sight, Mum telling us that you had peeled the potatoes and cleaned the bathroom and this was not long after you had had to get used to a world without much light! You were inspiring, that you faced so much adversity head on.
From as long as we could remember you were the life and soul of the party, loud, fun, always joking around. We also remember when our children were young that Mum used to tell you not to get them excited, but did you listen? No, there you were with your makeshift cape ( a sheet) brandishing your toy sword playing some comic book hero with the kids. They adored you!!
When we were kids you were the same, can you remember the shark game we used to play in the sheets on Sunday mornings, you used to pretend to be sleeping and we would creep onto the bed and you would jump up and scare us so much. Mum said we were a bit naughty when you took us swimming as we used to swim away from you and without your glasses you couldn't find us. Our other fond memory is of you with your beloved Amber and Sheba. You used to wake us up early when you got in from work to take the dogs for a walk to the golf course, but so we didn't get dirty you told us that a wicked witch had cast a spell on the sand bunkers and that if we went in them our legs would drop off!!! Growing up was so much fun!
Terry you gave us and our children so much but most of all you made Mum very happy. You had your ups and downs but when it really mattered you were always there for her, utterly devoted, finally making an honest woman of her some 20+ years after you first started dating. Your wedding day gives us our best memories, what a day!!! Both of you looked amazing and after so many years a testament to true love. Almost everyone who attended the ceremony had difficulty holding back the tears as it was so beautiful. And the reception back at your house, as usual a typical Terry in full entertainment mode. We sang, we danced, we joked, I could go on and on.
You lived a full life Terry, you traveled extensively, you worked hard and you loved passionately and when you left us you left a huge gaping hole that cannot be filled. We knew we were going to lose you, but of course nothing prepares you for when it happens does it - you always want a bit more time. We know that you are in a better place and to wish you were back is unfair as you were in some pain, but we can't help but wonder why? You were a good man Terry and you did not deserve to go early and to suffer.
At your funeral so many people turned up to say goodbye, but it was a hard day for everyone, especially Mum, who is so lost without you. We played your favourite song by Rod Stewart, the one that got played at all of your parties and we all sat quietly and in our minds could see you doing your actions and playing the air guitar! Bittersweet memories.
We all think of you and the children still remember their amazing Grandfather. Mum feels you with her and we know that you stand by her side when she is feeling your loss, sprinkle some angel kisses on her and keep her safe.
They say that life goes on etc, but it is hard - for so many of us. You were always there to discuss a problem with and to give some sound advice, you could raise a smile on the glummest face and you taught everyone who came into your life to overcome adversity and get on with it!
Terry when they made you , they broke the mould and we feel honoured to have had you in our lives.
Rest in Peace, look in on us from time to time until we all meet again.
He knows how much you care,
Feel no sorrow in a smile
That he’s not here to share.
Do not be sad forever
He would not want you to
He’d hope that you could carry on
The way you always do
So talk about the good times
And the ways you showed you cared
The days you spent together
All the happiness you shared,
Let memories surround you
A word someone may say
Will suddenly recapture
A time, an hour, a day
That brings him back as clearly
As though he were still here
And fills you with feelings
That he is always near
For if you keep these moments
You will never be apart
And he will live forever
Locked safe within your heart
Footprints in the Sand - The Poem
by Mary Stevenson
One night a man had a dream. He dreamed
he was walking along the beach with the LORD.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.
For each scene he noticed two sets of
footprints in the sand: one belonging
to him, and the other to the LORD.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.
He noticed that many times along the path of
his life there was only one set of footprints.
He also noticed that it happened at the very
lowest and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him and he
questioned the LORD about it:
"LORD, you said that once I decided to follow
you, you'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during the most
troublesome times in my life,
there is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when
I needed you most you would leave me."
The LORD replied:
"My son, my precious child,
I love you and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering,
when you see only one set of footprints,
it was then that I carried you."
Our memories build a special bridge
when loved ones have to part
To help us feel we're with them still
and soothe a grieving heart.
Our memories span
the years we shared,
preserving ties that bind,
They build a special bridge of love
and bring us peace of mind.
~~Emily Matthews~~
MISS ME..... BUT LET ME GO
We've known lots of pleasure,
At times endured pain,,
We've lived in the sunshine,
And walked in the rain. ,
But now we're separated .
And for a time apart,,
But I am not alone- ,
You're forever in my heart.,
Death always seems so sudden, ,
And it is always sure,,
But what is often forgotten-,
It is not without a cure.,
There may be times you miss me, ,
I sort of hope you do,,
But smile when you think of me,,
For I'll be waiting here for you.
Now there's many things for you to do,,
And lots of ways to grow,,
So get busy, be happy, and live your life,,
Miss me, but let me go.
From your loving wife xxx
Another year has passed darling and it really doesnt get any easier to bear, especially on days like this. I miss you so very very much and ache to feel your arms around me again. We all have this tremendous gap in our lives, which can never be filled. You were such a kind, happy and lovely person who enriched so many peoples lives. I know you were taken from us far too soon, but rather that than have had to watch your continual suffering. RIP sweetheart - you have my heart and my love forever.
June
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Missing you .....
My life is still empty without you. Miss you so much, the girls have really missed out on not having you in their lives. They will always be told about the fantastic grandad who looks down on them from heaven. I love you so much xxx
Lots of love
Lisa (daughter)
Another year passes xxx
Hiya Tel
8 years - seems unbelievable!! Still find it hard to accept that you aren't with us, miss you so much.
When I got up this morning, I put the radio on and Ronan Keetings 'If Tomorrow Never Comes' came on the radio - first song! This was also around the time you passed although I can't remember the exact time but the song played at 7.15am. And a couple of weeks ago when I was out with Mum at the Lord Mayors Show a band marched past playing 'We are saying'. Little reminders to keep your memory alive.
Death is so difficult to deal with, there is always so much to say and still do, its a stark reminder to not take things for granted. I am going to make sure that I tell everyone I love them today cos you just never know - do you.
We knew that you would leave us, your illness was making sure of that, but we didn't expect it to be that soon. But I give thanks that you did not suffer as much as you would have if you had lived longer, that would have been un-bearable.
Tel, you had a huge impact on our lives, you brought fun and laughter, comfort and love. I was truly blessed to have had a Dad number two, just like you.
Love you forever and ever
Micki
xxx
HEAVENS GATE
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Teardrops stain my cheeks
Now my love you've gone
Gone to join the angels throng
As sad and lonely I live on
I am comforted to know
In my sadness and despair
I'm alone but you are with me
As I feel you everywhere
With my faith for strength
I wipe my teary eyes
Safe in the knowledge
That no one really dies
We will be together again
If my beloved you will wait
Beyond the golden portal
Just through heavens gate
by Paul Curtis
Goodnight Terry xxxxx
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Love always xxxxx
♥*•LOVE IS ALL AROUND US*•.♥
♥*•.♥*•.♥*•.♥*•.♥*•.♥*•.♥*•.♥*•.
Love is all around us
When we take our first breath...
When we depart this life
Love is still with us in death
Cherishing our loved ones when they are alive
This is how we manage and how we do survive
♥*•.♥
Our loved ones are not gone
But just in the next world now
When we read the bible this will tell us how
God has many mansions
And there is room for us
Just believe in him, his love and his holy trust
♥*•.♥
So when we weep for loved ones
That have now left this life
No more having to deal
With the pressure and the strife
But waiting their patiently for us to join them in their love
While our loving family look down from high above
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By~~Freedom
Another year passes .....
Tel, (Dad number 2)
7 years since you left us...seems so long ago...yet it seems you were here just the other day.
I still think that you might just walk in the door, whistling!
So many memories of so much fun. You were a real little boy in big mans clothing - you never grew up!
Levi asks questions about you now and I feel so bad that he never experienced the happiness and joy that you gave to your grandchildren. He didn't get to dress up in the capes and chase you all over the house...life seems so unfair. But I KNOW this is not the end, but just the beginning for you and that we will all be reunited.
Watch over us Tel and keep our space warm for when we join you
Love and hugs forever
Micki
Happy Birthday
Wow!! I cannot believe that I last wote a tribute a year ago - I feel bad about that Tel. Please do not think its because I do not think of you far from it. This site is healing to come to but try not to linger as it is also very painful. So many lost loved ones.
I can just imagine the fun we would have with you this Christmas, the same as many before... its never been the same since you left us, there is something missing at Christmas and always will be - YOU!! A vital ingrediant - its hard, but we have to continue.
I love you so much and this goes for the boys too. Curtis is starting to do well, he has a beautiful girlfriend and is spoiling her rotten this year!! Its lovely to see him caring for her. Reece has had a rocky 18 months and I do not think we are out of the woods yet, but he will turn a corner - i know it!
And Levi, the grandson you didn't get to meet.... well what can I say, face of an angel, temperament of a ????. He is a pickle and so funny.
Got loads to do for Christmas and to be honest the longer I sit here typing the sadder I feel. Miss you so very much, if only there was a final 5 more minutes!!
Love you, have a great birthday
Micki and the boys
xxx
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